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Start your journey towards more energy, self-love, and new orgasms. With the online course, you will gain access to 8 unique lessons today, which you can follow at your own pace.
More energy, increased desire, new orgasms – in eight lessons
Do you feel a spark when you read or hear about the techniques of the Valley Orgasm? Do you crave more? Then you are ready for your journey and to discover the power of self-love. By taking this step, you allow yourself to grow every day towards:

Increased sexual desire
Discover the onset of sexual arousal. Gain a deeper connection with your body and your emotions.

More energy
Sexuality as a source of energy. Learn how to recharge your own battery through self-love.

More self-love
Through self-love, so you can more clearly sense your boundaries and communicate them in a relaxed manner.

New orgasms
Learn to let go, slow down, and enjoy new orgasmic experiences: Valley Orgasms.
One sustainable solution for the rest of your life
From pelvic floor issues to hormonal fluctuations, from challenging intimacy to the effects of sexual trauma – we understand all too well how complex sexuality can be.
And that’s why we are incredibly happy and grateful to offer you an ancient yet little-known alternative, a solution that can alleviate many problems. A journey you can embark on towards a life full of vitality and pleasure. And this solution is remarkably simple.
Whether or not you experience orgasms, whether or not you have a uterus or ovaries, and whether you are before, in, or after menopause, the techniques of the Valley Orgasm provide you with a lasting source of energy, pleasure, and growth.
A little practice, a lifetime of pleasure
The Valley Orgasm empowers you, gives you access to an abundance of energy, helps you process old emotions, and makes you shine.
The beauty is: the techniques are not complicated; they just require practice. ZOnce you master them, they become as natural as riding a bike.

For everyone from 18 to 100+
The Valley Orgasm course is accessible to everyone, whether you are 18 or 100 years old. Only if you are pregnant or planning to become pregnant, we advise you to wait a bit longer.

Just like learning to ride a bike
Once you master the techniques, they become as natural as riding a bike. You can apply them daily. You don't have to give up anything else for it.

From the comfort of your own bedroom
The course is safe, appropriate, and proven by thousands of women. You can take the course from your own bedroom.

Access to your own energy source
The effects vary from person to person, but one thing is certain: you will gain access to your own inexhaustible energy source from day one, for the rest of your life. How great is that?
How does it work?
Sexual energy is so powerful that you can create new life, a child, with it. But, on average, we have only 1.2 children per person. What do you do with that abundant sexual energy if you don’t have children?
Imagine giving this sexual energy to yourself. That you know where the sexual energy is located in your body and how you can increase and direct it.
Here’s how it works:
- You create arousal in your body through self-love.
- After a while, you calm down.
- You collect the released sexual energy and bring it into your system through a specific meditative technique.
- The arousal gradually subsides and transforms into increased vitality.
- You feel refreshed and recharged.
- This is called transformational sexuality, where you convert sexual arousal into increased energy.
The concrete techniques to learn this are taught step by step in the Valley Orgasm course. In eight engaging lessons with extensive theory and guided audio exercises, you will discover how self-love differs from other approaches and how it can help you with specific health issues.
And not just for your health, but also for your overall well-being as a person. You reconnect with a vast source of energy, allowing you to grow and make your life more intense and beautiful.
How do you regain your desire for sex?
It might happen during a low point in your relationship, a stressful period at work, after the birth of your child, or when you have entered menopause. Many women notice a decline in their sexual desire at some point in their lives.
First of all, we want to assure you that a temporary “cool phase” is completely normal and can even be beneficial for you. When it comes to sex and intimacy, you are trying to find a beautiful balance between warm and cool in your life.
But sometimes that “cool phase” can turn into a kind of ‘frozen state’, and that is not good for you.
Your ‘desire for sex’ is about more than just physical intimacy.
It’s about how you feel in your body, your pelvic floor, and your vital energy. When that connection freezes, it can make you feel less energetic, less full of life, and it can even affect your health.
You lose a part of yourself.
But you cannot lose your sexual energy.
Here’s the good news:
- You can lose your 'desire for sex,' but you always carry your sexual energy with you.
- It is the source of your vitality, and that source is within you.
- However, sexual energy can sometimes fade into the background.
- In the Valley Orgasm course, you will discover how to reignite the spark of sexual arousal within yourself.
Step by step, you will learn how to restore the flow of energy within yourself, how to “thaw” yourself, and rekindle the fire of your own desire. And the best part is: you don’t need anyone else for this. The Valley Orgasm course provides you with all the tools you need.
How do I recharge my battery?
Do you always wake up feeling fresh in the morning and jump out of bed full of energy to start the day? Do you come home from work in the afternoon with a smile and happily cook for your friends or family? Even if an unexpected pot of spaghetti sauce falls to the ground or your partner forgets to do the shopping?
Probably not always.
But if you look at nature, this should actually be the norm. Nature is full of energy. Children bounce around all day, cheerful and enthusiastic, approaching life with full energy. They are always ‘on’. They don’t need coffee, and they don’t need to sleep in on weekends.
This is their natural state of being.
Why do these children radiate so much? Because they are bursting with vitality. Gradually, we lose bits of it. We know that when we have a new child, they come into the world again, rosy and radiant. But how can we bring that blush back to our own cheeks?
You can do this through your sexuality.
- Nature provides us with abundant energy, in large quantities. But we don't utilize it.
- In our culture, this may not be so well known, but ancient Chinese Taoists and other wise traditions discovered long ago that you can keep yourself healthy and energetic through your own sexuality.
- With this, you can recharge your own battery day in and day out.
You bring excitement into your body—whether a little or a lot—through self-love. You let the released sexual energy flow through your system. The excitement slowly fades and transforms into increased vitality. You feel refreshed and recharged.
It may sound a bit strange, but it is simply in your nature. You originated from sexuality. There lies the source of your life energy. And you can tap into that source for the rest of your life. All on your own.
In the Valley Orgasm course, you learn how to recharge your own battery.
How do I love myself?
Maybe you’ve heard of self-love but aren’t exactly sure what it entails or feel uncertain about how to start. Maybe you long for more self-love and sexual growth, but you experience resistance or feel a blockage somewhere.
It’s understandable that self-love and “taking good care of yourself” don’t always top your list… But by doing so, we sometimes shortchange ourselves greatly as women. We are good at pushing through, persevering, and gritting our teeth. Taking good care of others.
But who takes care of you?
If you always put others’ needs first and forget your own desires and needs, you will eventually pay a price. If you never have enough time for yourself because you are constantly busy with work, household chores, children, and other responsibilities, you lose yourself. If your schedule is always packed with appointments and meetings, but never with time for yourself, life doesn’t get any more enjoyable.
And that has everything to do with self-worth.
- Fortunately, you can learn the art of self-love.
- You build a healthy, loving relationship with yourself. And everyone benefits from that.
- Self-love is different from masturbation, which is mainly focused on achieving an orgasm. It's all about you.
- You don't have to please anyone else with it.
In the course, you learn to regularly make time for self-care, self-love, and self-pleasure. You create your own safe space, symbolically “locking the door to your bedroom.” This brings you much closer to yourself and allows you to develop sexually in a profound way, all in a gentle, loving manner.
You can release tensions, break through resistances and blockages, enjoy your body and sexuality, and let your life flow fully. Many women preceded you: oIn a natural way, they restore the connection with their own sexual source. Step by step, they learn to love themselves in a way that goes beyond just the body or ‘quick pleasure.’
You gradually learn these skills in the Vallei Orgasm course.
How do I achieve a Vallei orgasm?
Not all women easily achieve orgasm, especially not during sex with a partner. Maybe you never really had the chance to explore yourself in that area when you were young. Maybe you experience guilt or feelings of shame are holding you back.
Maybe you have even faked an orgasm at times. That, of course, doesn’t feel good, and it is unfair to yourself and others.
And now you suddenly have to learn about a high-level orgasm?
Let us reassure you: to achieve a Vallei orgasm, you don’t need to earn a diploma or spend hours writhing in bed. It is simply a term for different types of orgasms that are unlike the well-known peak orgasm.
Here are a few examples: vaginal orgasm, uterine orgasm, organ orgasm, body orgasm, and even spiritual orgasm. These experiences occur in various parts of your body. Sometimes they even go beyond the purely physical and become spiritual experiences. Experiences that can touch you deeply, or even transform you.
You cannot force a Vallei orgasm, but you can invite it.
- So, you can't just lie down and squeeze out a Vallei orgasm.
- In the Vallei Orgasm course, you learn how to create the conditions to invite such an orgasm.
- The beauty of these experiences is: they are always different. While a peak orgasm can be predictable, a Vallei orgasm is an adventure in itself.
A Vallei orgasm can be a small, intimate experience or an overwhelmingly large one. Through the course, you learn how to connect with your own sexual energy and gradually open yourself up to new experiences.
You don’t need a partner for the Valley Orgasm course. In fact, you symbolically lock the bedroom door. These are moments just for you. Because an orgasm is about surrender. And to surrender, you must feel completely safe within yourself.
Once you’ve experienced these moments on your own, the chances of sharing them with a partner become much greater. Although that is not the goal of the course, many women find that their love life becomes richer, deeper, and more beautiful.
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"My surroundings notice it"
“How wonderful it is to feel your energy increasing, that things start to flow naturally, and that my surroundings begin to wonder why I look so radiant.” And where I get that energy from. I can let go of stress, live with soft eyes, and from a place of desire. I wish that for other women too.
Saskia | Valley Coach
"A pot of gold"
“From a stagnant, ‘frozen’ state, I have, in the safety of my bedroom, been able to reclaim my sexuality step by step using the Valley techniques. “Thanks to the Vallei orgasm, I now enjoy sex again, and most importantly: I feel more autonomous, vital, and fulfilled.”
Christel | Valley Coach
"My body belongs to me again"
“In my previous relationships, I always felt there had to be more than just ‘straightforward’ sex.” There had to be something deeper. By training for the Valley Orgasm, it gradually became clear to me what I had felt in my subconscious all those years. “My body now belongs to me again and not to someone else.”
Dineke | Valley Coach
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TIME
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Online course
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You can now sign up for the online course “Valley Orgasm” via the green button. Below you will find some practical questions and answers.
- Homework for the bedroom: 2 to 3 times 20 minutes per week.
- Theory (eight lessons): one hour of audio per lesson.
- Supporting materials: an average of one hour per lesson.
It is not allowed to speed up. Slowing down is always wise.
It is important to give your body time to process the effects of the techniques. Sometimes you don’t feel like doing homework for a week. That’s fine; it allows everything to settle down nicely.
The course consists of eight lessons. Every two weeks, you will gain access to a new lesson. If you follow this schedule, the course will last 14 weeks.
You retain lifetime access to the course.
The advice is: don’t rush. You have the rest of your life to master the techniques of the Valley Orgasm.
Absolutely! There are various options available.
- You gain access to the exclusive Facebook group ‘Valley Women Only,’ which has over three thousand members. The group is professionally guided by Valley coach and healthcare psychologist Peggy Aarts, along with fellow coaches. Here, you can ask all your questions and always receive an answer.
- You can also always ask questions to the customer service team.
- Not included in the course, but highly valuable: you can always reach out to one of our Valley coaches. Request a free introductory session, where you can decide together if a follow-up program is desirable.
Of course! If it doesn’t suit you, you can change your mind within 30 days and get your money back.
Yes! If you contact a Valley coach, you can receive a discount code for €50 off. Instead of €247, you’ll only pay €197 for the course. Additionally, you’ll have direct contact with a Valley coach who can help you get the most out of the course and learn techniques that will bring you lifelong pleasure. You can use the code without any obligation. If you want coaching from a Valley coach, you’ll settle that separately with them. Here you can find all the Valley coaches.
Who will be teaching me?
The theory will be taught by Tao trainer Reinoud Eleveld. He is interviewed by an experienced journalist: Marleen Janssen. They are inspiring, enlightening, and often quite humorous conversations. Reinoud is the leading specialist in Europe on Taoist knowledge about sexuality and vitality. Safety is Reinoud’s top priority. In this course, it is explicitly intended that you learn the techniques on your own, not with a partner. It’s about your own sexual development.
Can I do it too?
Absolutely, you can do it. It doesn’t matter what your sexual orientation is (LGBTQIA+), whether you have (or still have) ovaries or a uterus, or if you sometimes feel ‘frozen. You can’t lose sexual energy. With the right guidance and practice, you will definitely master the techniques of the Valley Orgasm, and your sexual energy will start to flow.
The only time you should wait to train is if you are under 18 years old, or if you want to become pregnant, are already pregnant, or have not yet resumed menstruating after giving birth.
"I felt warmth again."
Valley Orgasm opened the door for me to the journey of discovering my femininity and cultivating more self-love. I thawed and transitioned from being constantly busy to finding peace. I used to struggle to run one business, and now I effortlessly manage three.
Sandra | Valley Coach
"I am now a powerful woman."
The course brought me energy and strength. I’m flowing again and feeling great in my own skin. My relationship with my partner deepened and improved, and my relationship with myself is incredibly strong. I’m happy with my body. My sexuality became a source of strength and energy.
Anita | Valley Coach
"My symptoms decreased."
I discovered where my boundaries lie. Boundaries in my work, in relationships with friends, partners, children, and family. And I learned that it’s best to respect them. I also started to notice that various physical discomforts diminished and that I became more sensitive and aware.